
Earlier this week, news broke that 'Whip My Hair' singer and Roc Nation artist Willow Smith would star in a Jay-Z produced remake of 'Annie' being produced by Columbia Pictures.
But, there's one person who isn't thrilled about the celebrity of Will and Jada Pinkett Smith's children, Jaden and Willow.
NAACP Image Award nominee and New York Times Best Selling author Terry McMillan took to Twitter to blast the Hollywood heavyweights for encouraging their entertainment children to follow in their footsteps.
"The Smith children already act like child stars. There's an arrogance in their demeanor and behavior. I find it incredibly sad," McMillan said on the popular social networking platform on Jan.27. "It feels like the Smith children are being pimped and exploited. Or, they're already hungry for fame. What about 4th grade?" The 'Waiting To Exhale' author continued, "A lot of A-list movie stars shielded their children from the Hollywood-world until they were old enough to decide. Look at those who didn't. Look at Lindsay. Phoenix to name, but a few. They miss out on childhood. It's more important than fame."
She cited her own experience raising her son and how she relayed to him that she was a popular novelist.

"In 4th grade, my son came home complaining that the kids in his school said I was famous and rich. I told him that was not true," she said. "That some of my books were popular but not everybody liked them. That we could afford a vacation. 'Oh' he said, and went back & repeated it. I wanted him to think of me. He didn't read any of my novels until he was 15. He only read 26 pages. Was bored."
The 59 year-old Michigan native also got into a war of words with music critic and television personality, Toure. He countered her, "Willow and Jaden are not being pimped. They want to be out there. They're modeling their parents behavior. And they're good," to which she replied, "Shut up, Toure! You make my point even clearer."
Fed up with the response from her Twitter followers, McMillan ended the conversation by exclaiming, "I raised my son. I'm not wasting another minute worrying about how Will & Jada are raising their kids."
But added, "P.S. I loved the 'Karate Kid.'"
How's that for keeping it real!
Update: McMillan issued a quasi-apology regardling her earlier statements on Twitter. She wrote, "I apologize for using the word pimp and exploit in referring to the Smith children. It was insensitive of me and wrong. Twitter is not the best forum to express some things. I didn't know folks would take my opinion so personally. It is amazing, though, how fast an unflattering comment gets retreated versus one that's flattering. I'm done with this issue. My opinion isn't going to change anything. There are a lot more important things going on in the world right now. My Mama used to say: 'They'll talk about you if you do. And talk about you if you don't. Let 'em talk.' Some folks look for a reason to criticize you. They're getting off on it and are saying much worse things than I did. I've got work to do. I hope everybody who has something important to do today besides worry about the Smith children, does it. And for those of you who were so offended by what I said or thought I was being disrespectful, unfollow me. So, I'm on blast? Too bad when I talk about what's happening in the government, the GOP, racism, love, etc., doesn't go viral."
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By: Vicki on 1/27/2011 2:23PM
When in Rome.....
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By: ARNEADER on 1/27/2011 3:25PM
I would want my children to be as NORMAL and lead as NORMAL a life as possible. Michelle and Barack are doing a great job with the girls. They remind me of "Sugar and spice and everything nice. That's what little girls are made of."
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By: nissa on 1/27/2011 6:37PM
Why would anyone take personal relationship advice from Terry McMillian. Period. Her track record is not too good at all. Lots of A-List stars have children you never hear about until they go to jail, or commit suicide, etc. So what does keeping them out of the limelight really safteguard them against. If you are a bad parent it's going to show no matter what. I think Will and Jada are good parents. And it is awful that other people in the "limelight" speak so negatively against them and their kids. Terry should be ashamed. I bet Jada really supported her when she was openly shamed by her ex-husband. We all did. How quickly people forget what real comradre means.
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By: lahelama on 1/27/2011 9:07PM
While i deplore twitter and think that it wasn't "helpful" to discuss this subject on this type of forum, i do think that Terri is right.
All of you people out there claiming that the kids want to do this...Remember how many "kids that wanted to do this" are having major issues with substance abuse and mental instability.
Kurt Russell is about the only star from the 50&60's that didn't have problems. Most of the 70, 80, & 90's stars from Gary Coleman to Britney Spears to "I can see dead people" kid are going through a whole lot of problems as we speak.
RIP 2/3 of the Different Strokes cast
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By: clarke on 1/28/2011 9:00AM
Well look who showed up. What's up LAHELAMA, how r things going in BLACKWOMENTHATSDONEBOWEDOUTLAND? Been looking for you on some of the articles like that one about the 72% out of wedlock birthrate amoung black women, or the one about those 90 middle/high school pregnant girls in Memphis. But I guess you been busy building the new nation and all. Now even though I think Terri is crazy as a betsy bug(and has been for a while) I agree with her on this one too. As I said once before Will and Jada need they butts WHIPPED BACK AND FORTH. Oh and lahelama I don't think the business has more to do with child actors getting on drugs as much as their family enviorment and American culture does. Good talking to ya again, keep in touch girl.
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By: gichaya on 1/29/2011 12:18PM
Some of you people her are so FOS. You are the same people that agreed with Ms. McMillian when the blog is about something that Willow was doing or wearing. Now you come here and act like you don't agree with her, bull. I don't agree with how she presented her opinion, but I definitely agree that those kids are too dayum grown. What the hell is a 10 year old going to do when she's 16 if she's done it all by the time she's 15? They're not my kids so personally, I don't give a dayum, but I know where Ms. McMillian is coming from
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By: henry on 1/28/2011 2:12PM
totally agree with nissa's comment.....
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By: No1'sname on 1/28/2011 7:30PM
I agree that children need to lead a normal life meaning being around children of their own age, attending school on a daily basis, getting involved in normal after school activities. We have so many examples of children starting off in the entertainment business & it ruins their adult lives, smh. I commend Raven Symone for being able to make it through the business as a success. There are not too many of Raven Symones that are walking around. Now a days its all about money & getting it fast. That is not what life is all about! Sometimes it makes you wonder who is the child & who is the parents!
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By: Jean on 1/29/2011 10:55AM
I agree with Terri! That song "Whip My Hair" I hate that song. I'm so glad my daughter turns the station when it comes on.
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By: mogc on 1/30/2011 7:00AM
Terry I'm with you 100 percent!!
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