"I often got depressed because I wasn't thick,'' Carruth writes. "All my life through school, I've noticed that girls had to be cute and pretty, or you had to be fine as hell with some ass and hips to be an 'in' girl. Even if you didn't have big breasts, it was cool as long as you had some ass. I didn't have any breasts, no a--, and no hips and that s--- made me feel so insecure. I looked like a damn boy!''
Not anymore.
In her memoir, Carruth details how a visit to a mysterious "Dr. X," 25 miles from her home, gave her the magic formula to help her gain weight and a voluptuous backside, earning her the name Buffie the Body. She explains that Dr. X gave her a list of foods, including peanut butter and pasta, along with a prescription for an unnamed liquid appetite stimulant. While she was hopeful, she says, she was not convinced it would work. She filled the prescription and followed the doctor's orders.
"Believe it or not, in less than two weeks, I had already started noticing a weight gain!'' she writes. "My a--, hips and thighs were the first parts of my body to receive this blessing. I noticed a little weight gain in my stomach area, too, but not enough to get alarmed by. It was like my a-- and thighs just took off and left the rest of my body. My body started changing so fast that it seemed like it happened overnight. Everyone was noticing it too -- and I mean everybody!"
Carruth burst onto the scene several years ago with an appearance in rapper Tony Yayo's video, 'So Seductive,' becoming a household name among hip-hop entertainers and fans. As she puts it, she came a long way from "fighting, dating drug dealers, stealing, stripping and... tricking." She used to carry a baseball bat in the trunk of her car in case trouble called.
Carruth is one of seven children, including a younger sister who died of ovarian cancer and to whom the book is dedicated. She grew up in Athens, Ga., and her real name is Buffie, based on a character from her mom's favorite television show, 'Family Affair.'
The problem with 'Video Icon' is that Carruth breaks little ground on the life of a video vixen that hasn't already been broken by Karrine Steffan's seminal account in 'Confessions of a Video Vixen.' And unlike Carmen Bryan's memoir, 'It's No Secret: From Nas to Jay-Z, from Seduction to Scandal,' Carruth does not name A-list celebrities in her sexual exploits.
The story is written in a fairly pedestrian fashion. It also has some inconsistencies. Carruth, for example, writes about other women hating on her for competitive reasons, but it appears she has beef with Steffans. "I'm not a fan of Karrine's, but I don't feel any particular way about her. She made those choices, and she lived that life. I don't think it affected me directly. America as a whole has never looked at video girls in a positive light. It's not Karrine's fault. It's all our faults, as a whole. ...Yes, I do agree that Karrine played her part in making it worse, especially by claiming she fell victim to the vicious Hollywood scene and then capitalizing off of her story, but the damage is done, and I don't even know how the image of a video girl will ever be repaired.''
Still, unlike the Hottentot Venus, who in the 1800s was forced to gyrate her ample buttocks as part of an exhibition around Britain, Carruth has made a choice.
"Yes, I admit that my a-- was my main reason behind my success, but everyone can't expect it to happen as easily for them as it was for me,'' she writes. "I was one in a million at the time.

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By: "DimePiece" on 5/31/2009 11:09AM
HERE WE GO AGAIN! Do these video vixens really think that a tell all or a book about their AZZ'S will give them FAME & FORTUNE? Her memoir book is nothing but BIG AZZ LIES! AZZ, AZZ, AZZ, which got her career to a jump off. Do you really call trickin, doin porn, stripping, being video vixen, ect.. is a DAMN CAREER and something to be proud of?
I wonder, does she really think that people believed some Doctor-X drove all the way to her home and gave her some mysterious formula to make her AZZ big, and to gain weight in all parts of her body? Big Behind Buffy, what a damn lie! That girl got BUTT IMPLANTS! Please, don't yall beleive this ISH! Don't know why girlfriend has to lie? SHE IS FAKE and NASTY!
She really has the nerve to say that, Steffane was capitalizing on her tell all sex book for her selfish gain? What she did is nothing to brag about either. Did the girl inspired any woman at all in her book, has she made any accomplishments in her life, is there PROOF that she is this CHANGED PERSON, and is there a DAMN MESSAGE in the book? HELL NAW!
The only positive out of the book was the dedication to her sister becuase, she died of Ovarian Cancer and that was it? I guess she figures, she can make $$$$ off of this books and more books to come for the rest of her life because she can't do anything else? People, SAVE YOUR $$$$! Please everyone, don't waste your $$$$ on the ISH!
Black woman out there, be thankful for what God gave us and KEEP IT REAL!!!!!!! Don't change for NOBODY!!!!
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By: "DimePiece" on 5/31/2009 11:25AM
There is one more thing I want to add. If this so-called Dr.X has this formula to make a woman's butt big, why didn't she give his REAL NAME so that other woman can get it? Or, why didn't she name the foods that she ate to help other woman gain weight in those areas too? Is it because it is ILLEGAL, She is selfish and don't want other females knowing the secret, or is this a made up BIG AZZ LIE to COVER UP that she got BUTT IMPLANTS? I don' believe she has any confidence and is insecure with herself! Sista, go back to school, learn, and get a real job!
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By: Original DNA on 5/31/2009 11:32AM
As an African-American I am totally ashamed of most of my races present spirituality, attitude, and level of consciousness.
a) We accept Uncle Toms as our leaders and refuse to wake up.
b) We allow rogue police to murder our people, and do not tear down the system.
c) We follow false religions that were handed to us by our SLAVE MASTERS.
d) We allow our tax money to be wasted in schools that brainwash our dumb down our children.
e) We allow gangs to infest our communities then wonder why police can get away with killing us.
f) We are divided by nose size, hair texture, degree status, skin shade, religion, socio-economic level, nationality, regionality, music preference, clothing preferences.
How long will we remain DUMB, DEAF and BRAINWASHED?!?!?
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By: K on 6/06/2009 9:50AM
Ok...what UNCLE TOM are you referring to...I hope it is NOT OBAMA!!! And WTF does this post have to do with the original question. BUFFIE THE HO...LOL. Sounds like you just wanted a platform for your rant of the day. Not that some of your points were not valid...but I again say the "UNCLE TOM" spin better not have been about our PRESIDENT!
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By: eric on 6/06/2009 12:17PM
I completely agree with you and more! But, we are the real problem, and also sites like BV's that continue to keep our people blind, deaf, dumb, ignorant, and in general acting like fools!
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By: kipulu on 6/07/2009 12:30AM
Hey, what do you think about this book:
http://www.howtoreachheaven.com
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By: Amechi on 6/06/2009 3:19PM
Because most of "race" are still slaves and they dont realise it. Sad but true!
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By: TAHIR on 6/06/2009 7:11PM
TEACH BRO. ORIGINAL, TEACH!!!!!!!
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By: ManifestGirl on 6/07/2009 1:05AM
That was so well written, so on point, so much truth in fact that anyone who doesn't hear the truth in your statement is as lost as the vixen who wrote the book in mention! Bravo!!!Oh Ps...who in their right mind would think the Uncle Tom's you referred to was our current President? just Wow!
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By: tabatha on 6/01/2009 8:46AM
often got depressed because I wasn't thick,'' Carruth writes. "All my life through school, I've noticed that girls had to be cute and pretty, or you had to be fine as hell with some ass and hips to be an 'in' girl. Even if you didn't have big breasts, it was cool as long as you had some ass. I didn't have any breasts, no ass, and no hips and that shit made me feel so insecure. I looked like a damn boy!''
SHAMELESS!!!!!
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