Lisa Nichols: Living the Life You Love

Lisa Nichols helped scores of people realize their dreams through her best-selling 'Chicken Soup for the Soul' series and her appearance on the DVD of 'The Secret.' The works helped her snare guest appearances on 'The Oprah Winfrey Show,' 'Larry King Live,' and 'Extra!' Now, she is back with more advice in 'No Matter What! 9 Steps to Living the Life You Love.'

In the easy-to-read guide, Nichols provides a road map to developing and flexing those all-important survival muscles, including building confidence and faith, saying yes to challenges and learning to forgive.The motivational speaker says that while millions of people are trying to live by the laws of attraction detailed in 'The Secret,' 'No Matter What!' instructs readers on how to steer clear of road blocks and how to slow down for speed bumps.

''Though I'm featured in the hit film and book 'The Secret' and travel around the world speaking about the law of attraction, for most of my life, I've been guided by a different law, the one I call the law of no matter what,'' Nichols writes."No matter what happened to me, no matter what people said to discourage me, no matter what I looked like or what I weighed, a small voice inside kept reminding me that I had the right to live the life of my dreams. Over and over I told myself, keep going for what you want -- no matter what! I was determined to set free my inner champion.

Setting free her inner champion meant building up her bounce-back muscles. What are those, you ask? These muscles are not developed at the gym or by drinking protein shakes, Nichols explains. Your bounce-back muscles are shaped and formed by life experiences -- by overcoming challenges and rising to the occasion, she says.

'No Matter What,' with its temperate advice, comes in handy during today's challenging times and provides a good road map to empowerment.

"When you see what I've made it through, you'll know for sure you can do it, too! And the advice and steps that I've outlined throughout the book will show you how,'' Nichols writes.



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    A Mocha Mom on Michelle Obama: "Mocha Moms across the country are thrilled that First Lady Michelle Obama has stated that she will be spending this season of her life as 'Mom-in-Chief.' It in some ways validates the choices our members have made to step away from high-powered careers to devote time to their families."

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    Cheli English-Figaro, Esq., Co-Founder and President Emerita of Mocha Moms, says: "When we started this organization in 1997, we knew it would grow. The trend toward women leaving full-time employment had already been established as families across the United States were re-discovering the benefits of having a home-based parent. However, African-American families were not recognized as being part of that trend in large numbers. We knew though, that African-American home-based moms existed and that if we built this organization, they would come. But even with that knowledge, we never anticipated the explosive growth which occurred. We were amazed and completely awestruck by the number of women who wanted to be a part of the organization."

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    Mocha Moms Inc. is open to women of all races and ethnicities. Angelina Jolie would make a perfect candidate as a woman with a multicultural family who puts her children and humanitarian activities before her career.

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    What is the most positive aspect of being a mother who stays at home, or who has chosen a flexible career to make more time for her family? Cheli says: "I love the flexibility my lifestyle has afforded me. Even though I am employed, and have been since my oldest child (who is now 15) was less than two years old, I have chosen jobs that allow me the flexibility to work around my children's schedules... However, every woman's career choice is hers alone to make and only she knows what is right for her family. Further, many Mocha Moms are employed either part-time, flex-time or even full-time -- inside and outside the home."

    Cheli with her family. The Mocha Moms National platform includes: "A strong commitment to marriage and to the support of our husbands: Mocha Moms, Inc. is committed to supporting the at-home mother of color as she sets the foundation for her family and learns and grows as a wife and/or partner."

    Cheli English-Figaro, Esq.

    A Mocha Moms Life Management Tip: "The best way to maintain an organized and efficient household while still having time to have fun with you husband, children and friends is to create a system or routine that works for you. I don't know too many moms who are incredibly enthusiastic and joyful about doing a mountain of laundry every Thursday, but the organization helps get those types of projects done."

    The Smiths take family life to the red carpet. Here we see Jada with her actor-offspring Willow and Jaden. This Jada effortlessly mixes work, play and personal time, like many Mocha Moms do.

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    Mocha Moms founder Cheli English-Figaro, Esq. names Julia Roberts as a very successful mother who has made it her choice to focus on family, when she has many other options. Here we see Roberts after giving birth to her third child, Henry Daniel Moder, with her two-year-old twins, Hazel Patricia and Phinnaeus Walter.

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    A Mocha Moms Money Management Tip: "Take a look at your saver-packs that are mailed home. Even some Web sites offer coupons for your favorite products or stores. Chat up your friendly neighborhood grocer (or clothing store owner) and learn what days (if any) are prime times for sales so you can plan your shopping accordingly."

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    Actress Angela Bassett often makes her children Slater Vance and Bronwyn Vance a part of her professional life. Her life as a renowned actress also gives her the personal time she needs to focus on them. Is the Mocha Moms lifestyle for you?

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