
We first saw him on MTV's 'The Real World.' He was a cast member during the show's first season. Kevin Powell took his role seriously back then. He understood the power of the medium and how important it was for him to represent -- not just for himself but also for all black males.
Today, he is using the power of books to do the same. In his latest tome, 'The Black Male Handbook: A Blueprint for Life,' Powell, who recently ran for a congressional seat in Brooklyn (which he lost in a tough battle against 13-time incumbent Edolphus Towns), is not just empowering black males, he is also giving them hope and a prescription for living successfully by highlighting the stories and experiences of other black males who have made it.
"I've been carrying this book around in my head for several years," Powell said. "In my work with black males, I often get asked, 'What should we be reading?' and 'What music should we be listening to?' and 'How should we be preparing ourselves for job interviews?' I mean, I would get hit with all kinds of questions from pre-teens to men in their seventies. And I realized that there was this huge void for black males. This book is an attempt to fill that void."
The College Survival Guide
A Fridge
Regardless of whether you have a wonderful sized meal plan, your fridge may come in handy with leftovers or when you feel like stocking it with bottled drinks.
Computer
The convenience of a computer is essential when sending your kids off to college. Forget the hike to the computer lab across campus students need a computer in the comfort of their room. A printer comes in handy as well. Depending on whether your child plans to carry his laptop around campus, you might opt for a desk top since they're lighter on the pockets.
Snacks
You will surely survive with off of a meal plan but it doesn't hurt to stock up on snacks when you don't feel like leaving your dorm room. Bottled water, pop corn, cereal and Ramen noodles are all low budget snacks to stock up on. Just be weary of the freshman 15.
Things from home
Some college students suffer from homesickness the first year. It's best to surround yourself with things like photos of the family, pillows or even stuffed animals. Anything that reminds your child of home.
MP3 Player
With all the stress that comes from school and exams, sometimes it's nice to block out the chaos in your life and even your roommate with music. It's nearly impossible to find students walking to class who aren't jamming to tunes.
Budget
Students who enter college often come in at the ripening age of 18. A great time for credit cards. Parents beware, your child may end up ruining their credit at a young age
Alarm Clock
When you're in college you don't have the luxury of getting awaken by your parents. It's now your responsibility to get to class on time so alarm clocks are a must. But keep your roommate in mind. You shouldn't wake him up ever morning with a blow horn alarm.
Cleaning supplies
Now you don't necessarily need to bring in the rubber gloves, mop and gas mask but it doesn't hurt to bring along Clorox all purpose wipes for spills or dust. Vacuums and brooms come in handy too depending if you have a carpeted dorm.
Bedding
What most parents aren't aware of is that most college beds are twin sized but extra long and require special sheets. When shopping keep your eye open for sheets that clearly state 'extra long' or else your child may come up short.
Shower shoes
You really don't know what some people do in the shower these days. College showers are known to be creeping with germs so spare yourself the fungus and purchase flip flops for the shower. You'll thank us later!
Powell cites books by Toni Morrison and bell hooks, Alice Walker and Ntozake Shange, whose very popular 'For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide When the Rainbow is Enuf,' provided anthologies of empowerment and strong, inspiring voices for black females.
But there was nothing on the landscape that even came close for black males. "Part of the issue is with the black male literary community -- which seems to focus primarily on the problems -- and part of it is the black male readership (which isn't buying books in great numbers)," said Powell, who has written in the past about his own struggles and overcoming his once-destructive nature.
"And part of the problem is a systemic racism in the publishing world, which seems reluctant to promote and produce books that will inspire black males to read." Powell found a publisher not just willing to publish his book, but to really get behind the concept.
'The Black Male Handbook' came out last month and is already in its fourth printing. Out of the nine books Powell has authored, this one is outselling them all. Where writers and pundits like Cornel West, Michael Eric Dyson and Tavis Smiley have focused on the problems -- the alarming statistics and the debilitating facts that face many black males throughout the country -- Powell's approach is solutions-oriented.
"For some reason, for the last 40 years, we have been stuck in this cycle of seeing ourselves solely as victims," Powell said. "I am not a victim. None of us are. And that's not to say that there isn't racism. But we can't focus on that and use that as an excuse for why we aren't doing what we should be doing. We have to be about focusing on the things we can do. And there is much that we can do."
In his book, Powell brings together a host of "can-do" black males who share their experiences and deliver their positive, forward-thinking solutions. It kicks off with a foreword by Hill Harper, who has also written a couple of books to empower young black people ('Letters to a Young Brother' and 'Letters to a Young Sister'), and there are pieces by financial literacy advocate Ryan Mack, BET's Jeff Johnson and author and professor William Jelani Cobb. Each man has a unique perspective on what it means to be a black male in America, but each provides a no-cop-out response to his challenges.
The overall message: You can do it! "Unfortunately, there has been a degenerative posture coming out of the black male literary population," said Powell. "We need to take our rightful place and not reinforce archaic definitions of manhood. This book will bust through those myths. If we are talking about black manhood, I wanted to make sure we talked to men who had a different take on this subject."
And men are supporting the book, from members of the fraternity Omega Psi Phi, who have been buying the book by the case load, to community groups. And Powell is committed to giving back to those groups that are making a difference.
He will be donating the proceeds of the book to organizations that are working with young black males across the country. "We can't wait for someone to save us," he said. "No one is going to save us, but us. No one will empower us, but us!"

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By: sobreviviente77 on 1/23/2009 8:42AM
Kevin (and the entire cast of the 1st Real World) were the most "real" of the shows entire existance...they weren't there just to hook up and have instigated drama. It is great to see that Kevin seems to have evolved from the young man he was then to the man that he is now. Not to say he was terrible back then. But with growth and maturity the difference is shown. I will purchase the book even though I am not a black male (I am a mixed female). I am, however, the mother of two young black males. I think this book is something that can help them get a better understanding of the possibilities that exist in this world for them. They aretoo young to read it themselves now, but as I have with other books I can read to them small sections at a time and engage them in conversation. And when they are older they can read the book if they so choose to.
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By: Daniel Asamota on 1/23/2009 11:19AM
I ain't tryin' to trash this guy or put him down, but somethings fishy! Now I read his book and it was very similar to MY BOOK 'Things All Young Black Men Should Know' that I put out in 1997 in Memphis, TN advertising in the Tri-State Defender. I had very few sales at the time, but I just wonder sometimes.
Daniel Asamota
author of 'Mound Bayou'
stay tuned for 'Cricket Man' from Xlibris
and the re-release of 'Things All Young Black Men Should Know'
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By: vaforvips on 1/23/2009 1:52PM
I have never watched MTV's 'The Real World' but Powell's book would be one I would like to purchase for my son(27). And to Daniel Asamota: Powell's book may be very similar to yours, but they may still be his words (thoughts). I just self-published my first book ['Reflections of A Spiritual Awakening' from Outskirts Press] in October 2008 (even though I had been working on it since 2005). And before publication, it seems like every spiritual book I read, or every preacher I heard were writing or speaking of things in my book - that I had already wrote about. But I knew what God had planned for me. Therefore, I continued to press towards my dream and am now in print - and my book is being sold on-line by US and global retailers. And even though some contents of my book may be similar to others, it contains my stories; my afterthoughts on life lessons. Plus, there's enough prosperity to go around for everyone in this world - those who chose to pursue it. Whatever God has for you - He has for you. Powell is getting his and you will get yours, as long as you continue to pursue your dream. Go ahead and put your book in second print - it's your book, not Powells. I wish both you and Powell well in your endeavors of auhorship.
Sheila Church-McSween - Author
'Reflections of A Spiritual Awakening'
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By: Mzlady on 1/25/2009 8:15PM
This is a great initiative in the black male community. I think Kevin is a powerful figure in our community and we should listen to him a bit. He definitely has something to say. I will probably gift this book.
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By: what th--?! on 1/23/2009 2:20PM
no disrespect to mr.powell..and although i was never a huge fan of "the real world" (the 1st season was without a doubt the most authentic)it's kind of odd he'd right a book on,or for black men considering his questionable past with women....
maybe he's become more enlightened..i'll give him that.but geez,he's gotta wonder people'd ask about that...maybe that's one of his topic of discussions
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By: Cartez Walker on 1/23/2009 2:46PM
"Bottom Line" is, Black men don't read! We were told in 1955, if you don't read, you'll never learn anything. All of these 'studies' about the Black men are a lots of 'Crap'! There is no reason to Re-invent the wheel. We aren't the FIRST Black men God made. We are 'regressing', because we're too lazy and too 'Kool' to read. Now that we have a 'Mentor' in the White House, what excuse will we use?
"Hail to the Million MAN" March! Remember that Joke?
As Black Men, we don't need a Million $$$ and we don't need a Million Men. We need a Few Good Men to Educate Themselves! [A 74 year-old Black Man.]
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By: Minister Carter on 1/23/2009 5:04PM
No disrespect to Kevin Powell but I know their is a best book for black males to read is "HOLY BIBLE".
Not to sound rude but thru Christ, there is hope for every black males. The bible teach bring about hope, self-confidence, self-esteem, humility, and above all to love one another as you love yourself. The bible also help you to become a better husband, father, brother, son, and even workman. I do understand that Mr. Powell want to empower every black males to better their life but I do believe that if you obey God, he will never fail you. The Bible did said that God will never leave you or forsaken you. There is so much to tell you thru God's word. The best thing I can give you is this:
"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths."(proverb 3:5-6) and "If they obey and serve him, they shall spend their days in prosperity, and their years in pleasures." (Job 36:11). Again I appauld for Kevin to help other but keep in mind that we put God in our life. God know everything about you, your strengths,your weaknesses,your thoughts and ways. We can not do nothing against the creator. He all in all.
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By: evansturnstone on 1/23/2009 5:37PM
I have a handbook, and actually I have had over years kept a journal. Maybe someday I will release it.
JFE
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By: djtonydee on 1/23/2009 10:16PM
WHO'S GOING TO READ IT?
YOU KNOW THE OLD SAYING,
"IF YOU WANT TO HIDE SOMETHING FROM BLACKS...PUT IT IN A BOOK"
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By: jcghill on 1/24/2009 12:38AM
This is funny. Its amazing how old stereotypes remain steadfast within our culture such as blacks dont read. We have more PH.Ds, Master's recipients and more brothas and sisters going to Ivy League school. Yet, we continue to say blacks dont read. Wow, we have two Ivy League graduates in the white house, yet we still dont read. Freakin amazing.
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